Miss you  / Cathy Vassale -. Whitehead (Friend)
When i think of Wendy I always remember that big beautiful smile and her wonderful infectious laugh. A grin comes to my face when I remember her I still hear her laugh in my mind. I pray Wendy laughs every day now in heaven.

Much love to her family

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hey beautiful.  / Stephie Hart (Niece)
heyy aunt wendaloo. Just droppin in to tell you i miss you. I've been thinking about you alot lately. My boyfriend Anthony took me up to the cemetary not to long ago. We planted new flowers there. you would love them. they're peach colors (:<3. Things without you have been kinda rough but i try to think of all our good memories. i cant walk into Drug Fair without remembering the time me you and kristin went there for brownie mix and you were singing shaniya twain extremely loud and you turned around real fast and knocked the movie stand over. lolll. going down to the beach is always a kick to. remembering the time you chased the old coupld up the sand because they stole your drift wood. lmaoo. God i miss you so so soo much. I cant tell you what i would do to have just one more tea party with you or to color just one more picture. I look back on your pictures all the time thinking about how beautiful you were. inside and out. We all miss you so much Aunt Wendy. I'm still writing you letter wishing i could send them to the house..but i know i cant. so i just read them out loud when i'm finished with them hoping you can hear me. Theres been so many good things going for me i wish you were here to see. Kristins sweet sixteen just passed. it was a kick. I made the Junior Varsity softball team as a freshman this year so that was a really big acchievement for me this year. i found pictures of us on the computer the other day and i put them up on my facebook so everybody could see how beautiful you were and still are. I tell my boyfriend stories about you all the time and every time i tell them to him even if i tell the same one over and over he's always so interested iin everything i have to say about you. not to long ago i found out that him and his older sister used to be at RayRays house all the time and they would always see you outside (: i go passed the house every now and then just to look back on what used to be. i miss you so much baby and i hope your resting soundly. i'll see you when i see you. I Love You so much.<3

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miss you  / Kristin Hart (Niece)
My friend Jackie passed away in November this year. Take care of her for me please. I miss you and I love you. I got my permit driving is fun lol. Wish you were here to see me in action. My Sweet 16 was fun. It would have been better if you were there to celebrate it with me. I love you and I miss you always.

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Happy Easter  / Sally
Sis, I'm missing you just as much today as I did 5 Years ago at Easter.  Love you always Happy Easter give everyone hugs and Love. Close

many thanks  / Brenda Hart (sister)

I would like to say  thank you  to everyone who has posted on our sister Wendys memorial site... and God Bless you all...

 Brenda

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I'm so sorry  / Deena (passerby)
I am so sorry for the loss of your sister.  My cousin left us through suicide also.
There are never any concrete answers, but hind site is 20/20.  The strength it takes to take your life, and the pain that is so unbearable is hard for anyone to imagine, I'm sure Wendy was a very strong woman.  Carol was too.
If they only had one more day, one more minute to think things out, it seems like they would of changed their minds.  My prayers are with you.  Wendy is now in the peaceful valleys of comfort, and even though we feel lost, they are infact,,,, saved.   
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I did not know wendy  / Tawanna Floyd (Friend from god )
I did not know wendy but just looking at her memorial site brought sadness to me but not in a bad way, sadness that she cant still be here with her family but happiness that shes in a better place, Im so sorry to the family but as long as you pray and stay together you'll always be loved from heaven above.

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Memories / Sally (Sister)
Sis
I can still hear you walking in the door telling me you made it!!!  I will forever cherish all the Thanksgiving Holidays we spent together.  Still wish you were here tonight to help with prepping everything... It just isn't the same without you and Mom here...NEVER WILL BE.  You are in my thoughts every day and will Always and Forever Be My Best Friend.  I love and Miss you and Mommy so much.  My memories of happier times is what helps me get through the holidays.  All I have to do is think of the Fun we had.  I Love You Much and Miss You Dearly.  Give Mommy a big hug for me and tell her I LOVE HER MUCH.  Happy Thanksgiving Sis
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A Memorial Day Tribute  / Rosemary Sis Of Alvin Cremeans

You Wendy will not be forgotten.
xoxo

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Happy B-Day  / Mike Ogden (ex from the day.. )
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I KNOW  / MARIO DAD 2. ANGEL CHRISSY ROSSI (FRIEND)

HELLO SALLY; 
                        THANK YOU FOR LIGHTING A CANDLE FOR MY CHRISSY,  I READ SOME INFORMATION ON WENDY AND I TOO FEEL THE PAIN OF THE LOSS OF SUCH A BEAUTIFUL PERSON.  JUST LIKE CHRISSY, WENDY WAS A GIVING PERSON ,ALWAYS WORRIED ABOUT OTHERS, AND LOVING OTHER BUT NOT HERSELF .
DON'T ASK WHY ? (OR WHAT IF) YOU WILL NEVER GET AN ANSWER , THE TIME WILL COME WHEN WE WILL KNOW EVERYTHING AND BE TOGETHER AGAIN FOREVER. TILL THEN KEEP HER NAME ALIVE, TALK ABOUT HER , DO THINGS IN HER NAME AND NEVER STOP LOVING HER .
THE PAIN THAT WENDY AND CHRISSY WAS IN HAD TO BE  EXTRAORDINARY SO I CAN'T JUDGE ,I CAN ONLY CRY AND MISS AND LOVE HER ALL THE DAYS OF MY LIFE. 
GOD BLESS YOU ,STAY STRONG,YOUR FRIEND

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Sis / Sally (Sister)

Sissy I Love you and Miss you terribly.  You finally came to me in a dream last night.  Seemed  So real but so glad it was not true for the news you gave would have been devistating.  Ash is doing well and getting excellent grades in school.  I Love you Sis...

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Back in the day!!  / Mike Ogden (Ex)
Hey Wendy,
Thanks for the great dream last night. You'll have to pop in more often. lol  No one knows about the times we used to take off in 5 minutes notice and wind-up who-knows-where, like the time we took off and wound up crossing the bridge in upstate New York and discovered Thousand Islands with all the lights lit-up in the night. Or camping in my "64" Chevy van at our private (or so we thought) camping spot in North Jersey along the Delaware water gap by Stokes Forest along the brook where we thought no one was around for miles until we went to the corner store that morning and the 2 fisherman told you they enjoyed watching you take a bath in the stream while they were upstream fishing, hahahahaha. "Funny cause it wasn't me" (Homer Simpson circa 1989) . Or when I lost my license so you had to sit in the drivers seat of my 64 Chevy van while I sat in the middle on the engine cover (always caught on fire from backfiring with no air cleaner lid) because you couldn't drive a shift. Or the many many many many many many many times the van used to accidentally (ya right) get stuck in the sugar sand way back in Old Bridge reservoirs and we had to stay all night in the van. I could go on and on.

No wonder your father hated me. 

Well, I just wanted you to know your not forgotten. 
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^i^ 3 Years January 6, 2004- January 6, 2007 ^i^  / Sally (Sister)
Today it's 3 years and I still  can't put to words how I feel. The same as last year...I miss you tremendously and think of you always.  This aint fair..,Not a single day has gone by that I have not thought of you. Life is not the same without you and I wonder if things will ever be. I want so much to be able to talk to you, hug you and laugh with you like we used to. I long to hear you say "hey Sal". 
I wish that I could fly...I could come and visit you then and come back home. But i'm not that niave. It can't happen. And reality sometimes really SUCKS. You shouldn't have left so early cause I miss you so much...want you back here with us all, we all miss you and carry our pain of losing you with us every day. If only...
Even though my life shattered the day you left, think not for a moment that I don't love you. I only wish you were here and we could see each other hug each other and share things (even our secrets lol!) I know what happened can't be undone, I wish I saw the "writing on the wall"..then you would still be here. I know it. 


I WILL LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER WENDUM!!!
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Why oh Why  / Sally (Sister)
Wendy....Why????????????????
Why did you do this???????????????????????????
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just thinkin  / Brenda (sister)
12-27-06 Wendy You are so Alive in my heart,  your the brightest star in the sky, most generous person I know,  kind hearted,  so funny,  full of love,energentic could light up a room kinda of person.  Thats our sister :)....I thank God for that...Merry Xmas & Happy New Year everyone, Here on Earth and in Heaven
                      God Bless

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My Friend...  / Kristin Kowalski (Aughtry) (Friend)

Wendy,
My heart can't express the sorrow and loss I feel for your family. What a wonderful woman you are and will always be. I can remember so vividly the memories of you and that smile of yours that lit up a room. Throughout life you were my brother's best friend and I want to thank you for that. Losing you was one of the hardest things for him. I remember cradling him, like a child, as he cried a million tears. I cried right along with him, for we lost such a beautiful person.  
Now you two are together again, raising hell in heaven, I'm sure. I rejoice that you are together but at the same time, the tears won't stop falling, for heavens gain is truly our loss. 
You keep on dancin girl, I will always remember you dancing, laughing and having the time of your life. Now.. you have the best dance partner this side of heaven.
 Hug Frank tight  for me, his sisters, brothers and esp. his mom.  That's a lot of hugs! Just hold on tight to him and stay close to your family and mine.
I love you Wendy
Forever in my heart...
Krissy (Franks baby sister)

Sally, you did a magnificent job on this site. May God bless you and your family. I am so grateful that I found this. 
With much love...

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still / Ashley Smith (neice)
im still hurting aunt wendy. 
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i miss you  / Stephie (Neice....a friend... )

i miss you Aunt Wendy and i have been thinking about you lately and i remembered the time when me you and kristin were walking in drug fair and you were singing shaniya twain and turned around really fast and sang and scared the living crapola outta me and i fell backwards into the case of videos and how hard we laughed after that..It was really very funny....Wow Aunt Wendy we had some pretty kick booty times:) i remember when me and you were up till like 4:00am cooking halooshkey and you stuck it down kristins throaght when she was sleeping i was laughing so hard!!!!!!!!!!!! wow aunt wendy.....i miss yah baby!!!!!!!!
always:: Stephanie Lynnthats my beautiful aunt Wendy....i love you sooo much babe!

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Angels amongst you  / Sally
Hi Sis,  
Hear you have a new Angel amongst you.  Hope you guys are having fun hanging out together.  Wish we would have heard the news sooner.  I wish I would have known the Service was on the 1st of July...I was in NJ, even came to visit you and Mom on the 1st and 2nd and would have gone to visit his family.  If I only knew.  Guess you already knew by then, your buddy was already with you!  Brenda said she is going to stop by and visit with his Mom.  
Sis, I think of you EVERY day and always wish you were still with me here on earth.  There is so much I want to talk to you about.  But I am sure you already know everything that is on my mind!!  I Love You Dearly and Miss You Terribly .  Give Mommma a Hug and Kiss for me. Love you Both Always and Forever. Close